Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Damas, Dramas, and Ana Ruiz by Belinda Acosta - Book Review and Giveaway


"As Ana walked down the hall to her office, flipping through the pages of Your Quince magazine, something wilted inside her. The young girls in the magazine looked like women, not girls. Sí, her little girl was becoming a woman. She knew Carmen would grow up one day, but with all the drama and Carmen working to send her poor mother to an early grave, Ana still found herself thinking, 'How did it happen so soon?'" - Damas, Dramas, and Ana Ruiz by Belinda Acosta

First of all, to understand the events in Damas, Dramas, and Ana Ruiz, you need to know what the word quinceañera means. It's a celebration or coming-of-age party held on a girl's fifteenth birthday that typically begins with a religious ceremony. And it is apparently a good way for mothers and daughters to bond. At least, that is what Ana Ruiz hopes will happen as she tries to plan her daughter Carmen's quinceañera. Ever since Ana separated from her husband, Esteban, she's not been able to connect with Carmen. Rather, Carmen blames Ana completely for the separation and refuses to hold any sort of meaningful conversation with her mother. Ana's son, Diego and her niece, Bianca try to help smooth things over between mother and daughter, but despite the quinceañera planning, their relationship remains strained. Ana wants to tell her daughter the truth about Esteban, but she doesn't want to break daddy's girl's heart.

While Ana struggles to regain her daughter's love, she also struggles to regain confidence in herself. She has always been the strong one. She was the first girl in her family to go to college, and she managed to raise two kids at the same time. Yet, her separation from Esteban completely shattered her life. She doesn't know if she should try to reconcile or move on. To complicate matters further, a handsome and suave artist named Carlos Montalvo enters her work life. Over the course of planning the quinceañera, both Carmen and Ana grow up in their own separate ways.

When I picked up my copy of the book Damas, Dramas, and Ana Ruiz, I was caught off guard. "Como se dice?" -- Umm, let me ask my translator, i.e. computer. Most of the book is written in English with a few Spanish terms effortlessly thrown in every so often to spice things up. While you can understand the story perfectly fine without knowing a bit of Spanish, I found it helpful to refer to my translator every once and awhile. That said, I'm glad I stepped outside my normal reading sphere because I learned about another culture and their traditions. Traditions like quinceañeras.

Using subtle humor and an almost narrative writing style at times, Acosta manages to successfully portray a strained parent/child relationship in her book, just as the colorful cover suggests. (Though I don't think Carmen's quinceañera dress was red?) There are a lot of tense situations and many situations where it is evident that the characters deeply love one another. This would make an appropriate YA cross-over book, especially for those interested in bilingual reads. Acosta's depictions of strained parent/child relationships are realistic, as are her portrayals of the strong emotions and resulting family stress that occurs when parents separate. At times I got frustrated at Ana because she refused to level with her daughter and discuss facts. However, as a parent I can also understand how she would wish to shield her child from all things ugly. Acosta succeeds in writing an appealing and touching book that explores the relationship between a mother and a teenage daughter.

Damas, Dramas, and Ana Ruiz by Belinda Acosta. Grand Central Publishing (August 2009); 336 pages; ISBN 9780446540513
Book Source: Review copy provided for free by Hachette Book Group

Related Links:
Belinda Acosta - Author Website
Discussion Guide
Hachette Early Birds Blog Tours List of all the participating bloggers in Damas, Dramas, and Ana Ruiz August Blog Tour
SpanglishBaby post on Quinceañeras (includes info about Verizon Wireless Quinceañera party giveaway worth $45,000)
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60 comments:

Ana L. Flores said...

I never had a Quinceañera because I decided it was best to avoid the drama, and go on a cruise with friends instead! hahha!
This book sounds like a great read!
Thanks!!

okbolover said...

oh oh oh!! pls enter me! I want to read this book!

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also to answer the question; yes! I have attended a Quinceañera! my own! :) I'm half Spanish and it was one of the most memorable birthdays I ever had.

Jonita said...

I would love to read this one; I love reading about other cultures! I have never attended a Quinceanera but they sure sound like fun! My own culture is far more subdued. Formal dinners and whatnot.

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DarcyO said...

I've heard good things about this book and would love to read it. I have never been to a quinceañera.

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DarcyO said...

I follow on Twitter and tweeted:
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MoziEsmé said...

Never attended a quinceañera - it sounds intriguing!

And I'd love to read this book. I'm a subscriber.

Lee P said...

This sounds like such an interesting book. I've already learned what a quinceanera is, although, I didn't have one on my 15th birthday. Thanks for this giveaway and please count me in.

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Amy said...

I have been to a quinceanera before. It was fun and the dress was so pretty. I love the dancing they did in the pairs. It was like being at a wedding. My friends ask me to go. Thanks for stopping by today. I hope you get all you need done in your home.

I love to read and would love this book.

Honey Mommy said...

This book sounds interesting. I've never been to a quinceanera, so it would be interesting to read.

dag888888 said...

Have never attended a quinceanera... but saw a Disney Channel Wizards of Waverly place episode about one just the other day!

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Staci said...

This book sounds very interesting. I've never attended a quinceanera, but I would love to read more about it!
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holdenj said...

The more reviews I see of this book, the more I want to read it. The deeply steeped heritage in doing a quinceañera seems especially interesting. I have never attended one, but my brother went to a co-worker's daughter's and said it was fantastic.

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Thanks.

Wanda said...

It looks like Belinda Acosta has written a good book. I would love to be entered in your draw. Thanks.
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Wanda said...

I am a follower of your blog.
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Beth said...

I have never attended one but it sounds interesting!
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Esme said...

I have never attended one-my neighbour is Hispanic and for her daughter's birthday party there is always a pinata.

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Kristy said...

I have never gone to one, but my cousin went to one a few months back and said it was the best party she'd ever been too!

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Kristy said...

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ChristyJan said...

I'd never even heard of, let alone attended a quinceañera until I read your review of this book. It sounds like a wonderful celebration.

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Anonymous said...

I know about quinceaneras because I taught ESL for a number of years and many of my students were Hispanic. I never had a quinceanera; I had a Sweet Sixteen, but I attended many quinceaneras.

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Dina said...

I never attended any quinceañeras but would love to read this book.

Belinda M said...

Please include me in your giveaway

I have never been lucky enough to attend a Quinceañera. It would be very cool to be able to one day


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Anita Yancey said...

This sounds like a fun and interesting book. Please enter me. Thanks!

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amweeks said...

With my own daughter getting older, this book sounds very interesting to me! And I had never heard of a quinceañera before...sounds ike fun!

amweeks said...

I follow on twitter & tweeted! http://twitter.com/amweeks/status/3481377449

Esme said...

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Esme said...

oops I messed up on my earlier entry and meant to say I follow and tweeted.

thanks

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Anonymous said...

Sounds like a fun book to read...count me in. thanks.

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CherylS22 said...

I have never attended a quinceañera - I never heard of it until this book started making the blog rounds. It sounds like a wonderful tradition & I'd like to know more about it.
Thanks for the opportunity ~
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Marie said...

No, I have never attended one but it sounds really interesting -- as does the book :-)

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Andrea said...

please enter me into this giveaway. I've been to two quinceaneras and i really enjoyed them.

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Daniel M said...

my niece would love this one - regnod(at)yahoo(d0t)com

flowerchild said...

this book sounds like a great read...please count me in...thanks
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Nancye said...

I have never attended a quinceañera

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Nancye said...

I follow you on Twitter and I tweeted

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